I'm a girl (Duh!) and its common knowledge that most (So NOT all) women tend to be more bias/self-centered/less magnanimous than guys. Come on, I'm admitting it as I'm somewhat like that. Once a girl is bias against you, you got to try very very hard to remove that stigma. Sorry dude - that's how it is.

And of course, being a fan of Michelle Phan, let me give my two-cents worth on plastic surgery. Yes! You heard me right. Of course, people who doesn't know who Michelle Phan is, let me just share a brief write-up. She's a Youtuber and has spent her teenage years till now posting make up tutorials online. And if you guys want to know, yes, I'm starting to use make up now. I even have a foundation brush for crying out loud. Friends who know me would know what Evette DON'T use make up. But due to Michelle's influence, I've decided to. I even DIY my make-up remover as I don't like the idea of smearing alcohol base products on my face. So what do I have in my make-up stash?

Everything is from Maybelline as you can see (except for the foundation brush). I know everyone is rolling their eyes that I've only started using Make-up at the age of 27. But hey, better late than never. Quit judging! So I've got Michelle to thank for making me join the make-up club. If I still look the same, despite putting on make up, then IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO HAVING GOOD GENES OKAY! =X Side-tracking a little, hope Leia will have my genes. *Prays hard that Leia takes after the picture below*

So anyway, back to plastic surgery, as some of Michelle Phan's fans have criticised her for being fake as she had her chin done. Personally, I'm not a fan of plastic surgery (didn't have anything corrected), but I'm not against it as well. Ever since I've put on make-up, I feel confident! So if a girl looks good, she'll feel confident as well. I'm sure most ladies can agree with that statement. So now my point being, if I need a chin to be corrected as having a lousy chin makes my morale down, I'll definitely correct mine.

If plastic surgery = fake, then for goodness sake, go bare face then. Why splash or don yourself with make-up? Isn't this contradictory actions? For those who disagrees, then fine, you have your own statement to make. And whatever statement you have to argue, I can respect that. So just respect those who feels like under-going plastic surgery or have been through the knife. To me, it's just like giving birth. I'm opting for natural delivery without epidural. So does that make me a better mummy than those who have C-sect?

My other point, what about those with emergency C-sect? You want to say they have no choice? So let's get it right, mummies who gave birth naturally are the best mummies, mummies who have emergency C-sect are of the second level, cause it's not an option whereas mummies who automatically choose C-sect are the worst of the lot? Let me then tell you, that you guys are the fake ones here. For goodness sake, having a C-sect doesn't mean they are the worst mummies. It's HOW YOU BRING UP YOUR CHILD that defines what kind of person you are.

Same analogy - Having the prettiest, NATURAL face on earth but having an ugly heart OR... Going through a knife but having the kindest soul? So if Michelle says that she underwent the knife, but she's still helping people, does that make her a bad and fake person? You got your answer within you. And whatever answer you have, it defines on what kind of person you are as well. Being a mother, I'm learning how to look at both sides of the story before I conclude anything. It ain't fair to just being judgmental.

Which is why Hus is always saying that I like to give benefit of doubt to the other party. To me, if I don't give benefit of doubt, wouldn't I be hypocritical by judging people first? I'm no saint, but by changing myself to be a better person, at least I know what values I'm instilling in my child.